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Is it unusual to be very picky about physicalities?
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My husband and I have been in the LS for a few years. And while I do enjoy a good puppy pile from time to time, (at a party) for the most part I am highly picky about what a man looks like. Essentially if I can’t get past their face I don’t want the rest of them.

Are there any other women like this or am I just the asshole? lol

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I feel this way, too, but I tend to be attracted to a lot more faces in real life than I am online. If I can sit down and talk to him, his personality might turn me on even if his face is marginal.

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Pff... you should try being a woman. We are judged by our appearance every day whether we want it or not.

You have the flu, and you have to run to the store to buy diapers for your kid? Too bad, some asshole is "rating" you.

You just had surgery, and it's your first time out of the house? Too bad, some guy is "rating" you.

You're out walking, pushing your baby in a stroller? Oh well, some dick is going to whistle at you.

Women are reduced to nothing more than their appearance from the time they are born.

If anything, the lifestyle equalizes that, so that now we are ALL judged by our appearance- not just the females.

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Where in the world are you getting this from? A man whined about being excluded because of his looks. I pointed out that this is what women go through from the time they are born. I pointed out that in the lifestyle, men and women are equal in this situation. Why are you crying? This is a simple fact.

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I'm right there with you. I love tall men too!

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How in the world is choosing what I like "inflicting pain"? Lol!

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And that's just one of the many reasons why this is fun. Because finally the playing field is level and women aren't the only ones who are at a disadvantage because of the way they look. It's all equal and you guys don't seem to like it too much.

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And in the world, in general, you know, the everyday world we live in, women are constantly judged by OUR APPEARANCE. So again, my point was that the LS equalizes men and women where now WE ARE ALL JUDGED BY OUR APPEARANCE- not just the females. Pardon me for not having a pity party for one guy who isn't tall enough for a few women's taste.

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Um no. As women, we are involuntarily entered into a beauty contest when we are born. Our value is consistently estimated by the way we look. And we are constantly encouraged to participate, even if we don't want to. Men have absolutely NO idea what that feels like. So, please don't whine about not being tall enough or whatever to appeal to the masses, because we females have been dealing with that shit since we came out of the womb.

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You could have stopped after the first paragraph. That would have been amazing....

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I'm not celebrating jack shit. I'm pointing it out, and men are still having a hard time acknowledging it. Seriously. Just acknowledge it for once instead of correcting me. It gets old.

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