I'm 42 years old husband and my loving wife is in later 30s. We have been married for 12 years now and have kids. Our life is normal other than bed.

I have some physical disability which is holding us to have complete enjoyment. Now a days the sex is completely out in our relationship.

I don't want she miss the enjoyment because of my challenges. I want to encourage her to open up relationship and have fun. Our cultural background and religious beliefs holding from opening up. How could I encourage her to learn and understand lifestyle and try it. I love her madly. She never complained but I'm sure it's hurting her and I feel bad.

What is the best way to help ease her to open up to enjoy her life without fear guilt or hesitation