My wife and I had our first exhibitionist experience at a club a few months ago. We were very nervous going in but we eventually got comfortable after hanging out in the play area and we found an open couch to play on. We only intended to play together to break the ice. It was a great night and we both felt invigorated.

Our next step is to do some more intentional parallel play to warm up towards potentially soft swapping but also my wife is interested in doing some FF play as she is bi curious. Getting her FF experience will help us know if that's something we include in our swinging journey.

How often do most meet and hookup with other couples the same night in the club? Is it better to try to meet others on the websites or at meet and greets and plan to go to the club together?

We are both introverted so the websites seem safer to learn about others and communicate boundaries and interests but their is also the issue of dealing with flakes and fakes which in the club you at least know they are real people that are at least somewhat in the LS.