Married couples that started swinging after many years together...
How did swinging impact other areas of your life as an individual? Did it impact the way you viewed your spouse? Way you viewed the world? Way you viewed yourself? Confidence?
Curious what are unintended consequences both good and bad from all this?
Thanks in advance!
My [69] wife [65] and I have been in the LS for about 4 years. I can say that although we were very open about sex before that (we each know all about our pasts) we have opened up even more. For example, after our 2nd threesome (the first with a guy) I told her that I wanted to know what it was like to suck a guy off. She was so open to that and encouraged me to go for it.
We openly ask people that we just met (if we're attracted to them) if they want to join us in bed.
We told ourselves that playing with others wasn't going to be the main course, it would be the dessert. We limit ourselves to twice a month on average. This has greatly enhanced our sex lives.
We've made new friends. We have fun all the time. We have lost a lot of weight. We've gained confidence. I've overcome some of my shyness. My BJ game has gotten better. We've become better, more skilled lovers.
My husband and I have known each other for 26 yrs and married over 12yrs. We started swinging a little over 4 years ago and we noticed a few changes.
Our communication has never been better.
We are more intentional with prioritizing each other and our marriage. For example, we date each other a lot more frequently.
Our sexual desire for each other has grown and it has enhanced our intimacy.
I will make mention that the lifestyle only works of done properly.
Oh yes. We played with that same guy a couple of months later. I talked to him, asking if he was open to me playing with him. He said that he was curious as well, so during that playtime we both sucked each other. I didn't cum for him, don't think he was ready for that just yet. But he did cum in my mouth.
Since then we have found two other couples where they were both bi.
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My wife gives fantastic head. By the way, she's on here too and can read everything I write. She really enjoys it .When I committed to doing this, I told her that I wanted to do it like her.
She had me practice on one of her dildos. I told myself that if I was going to do this, I was going all out.
To feel him pulsing in my mouth was the ultimate turn on. I can see now why my wife loves it. I have tasted my own cum many times, either kissing her after a blowjob, or licking her after I've cum in her so I knew what to expect as far as that goes. His tasted similar to mine.