Hi all,

I'm the (f)emale (37) half of a loving maried couple of 15 years (m) 39 (both Australian if it makes a difference) and have been swinging for around 7 years now.. Wouldn't change a thing and love all the experiences we've had together. Our sex has always been great, and we find swinging for us as a chance to be even closer. We have met some amazing couples along the way that are now some of our closest friends.. We catch up with a few couples outside the bedroom just as much as in.. Talking kids' parties, dinners, birthdays etc.. We do keep our swinger side private as do the majority of couples / friends we've met in the scene.

So here we go... We have a vanilla couple (married 34m 33f and 2 kids) that we quite often frequent each other's houses for drinks, dinners, parties etc.. We all get along super well, and our kids do to. A while ago we actually opened up to them about our lifestyle, nothing changed at all with our relationship however over the last few months they have been super curious about it by asking a bunch of questions about events and how we deal with jealousy if any - you know the usual questions from vanillas. They recently asked us to come to an erotic party with us to which we obliged, and they loved it. They didn't play with anyone but themselves but had an absolute amazing time and want to attend more, including wanting to attend any house parties we have.

There is an attraction there and I know both husbands are all for it, and I'm pretty sure she is too.. I love how close we've become with other swingers in the scene - i guess it just feels a little different as these guys were friends before swinger lol - I dunno...

I guess what I'm most worried about is if we do take the next step it may ruin our friendship. Anyone had a similar experience? How did you handle it? Did you do it? Did you decide not to risk it?