We are still pretty new. So be kind. We have been on a few dates, we’ve ended up leaving all feeling good; but we’ve resisted playing because that’s the rules we set when we started (which will subsequently change now). We’re now horny and frustrated; we have several ‘chats’ on the go with lots of hot and wonderful people. The conversation with those people have set out our boundaries in the ‘what are you into?’ question.
If you were a couple, doing that initial chatting phase - and you suddenly got a ‘hey, we’re really horny are you DTF’ … would that put you off!??
Yes. We horny.
Exactly. We had said we don’t play on first dates. It’s all very polite and respectful chat. Little sexy chat. You know how it goes. So it would be somewhat out of the blue. But hell, we all know what we’re here for if we’ve got this far… no?
Exactly. I’m paraphrasing with ‘DTF’.
The former. We didn’t end playing even though they asked us back. They’ve subsequently wanted to, but we’re just not feeling it.
Yeah. We’ve talked about that. We are going to go with it, and totally be prepared to walk away. You can’t take any of this that seriously.
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These are all people we’ve been chatting with for a few days/weeks. Just for context - this isn’t our opening line!