My partner and I have been talking about getting into the swinging lifestyle for a while now, about 6 months or so. At first, we just fantasized about it, probably thinking we would never actually dive in, then eventually made plans to go to a lifestyle club.

For anyone familiar with this lifestyle understands that communication with your partner is the most important thing. My partner and I have incredible communication. As we began to look further into this lifestyle we talked about any and every scenario and whether both of us would be ok exploring or not. We discussed hard “no’s” that neither of us would be comfortable with as well exploring the things we would like to experience.

We are TBM and wish to continue our membership in the church. We enjoy holding callings in the ward and we participate with many service opportunities. We are excited to see our children grow in the gospel and hopefully choose to serve missions. We would love to serve a senior mission as well!

What does this lifestyle mean to our membership in the church? To state the obvious we understand this would be breaking the law of chastity as well our temple covenants. I could probably give a list of things we are justifying by getting into this lifestyle but… they would just be justifications. I think the main thing we hold onto is that we both decided together about getting into this. The idea what a married couple does in their private time is their own business.

We would love to hear any other TBM members who have had experiences in the lifestyle. Feel free to shoot us a dm if you prefer not to comment here!