Hello sexy people. So, my wife and I are still rookies in this lifestyle but were both enthusiastically want to participate for a long time. We've started planning our year for our life plans and how and when we play is included in the discussion. I'm sure all of you can understand that swinging isn't cheap. When we initially got started, we decided to only do clubs, but now we want to increase our frequency in meeting other couples. Which is great, but my broke ass can only afford so much. Clubs can be pricey, especially when you factor in the other expenses for the night/weekend out.

So, to the point, we're still not keen on having an online presence on the sites yet but were open to going to house parties now. From what I've learned, you have to be invited to these parties, which makes sense.

What I'm seeking to learn is

1. How to make ourselves more likely to be invited to one.
2. Any cardinal sins or unwritten rules out there.
3. Any pros and cons anyone would like to share.
4. Horror stories to prepare us for bad possible situations.
5. Should we host?