So my long fiancée and I have been dipping our toes into the scene for about a year now, all good, lot of fun. No complaints. We have managed to keep it to our selves with out any over lap into the “real world”. We are from Long Island, NY so its a small are for New York standards where every one seems to know every one. Yesterday some one reach out to my future brother in law with a screen shot of a profile that we have on a swinger app. Asking “isn’t this so and so and her new boyfriend?” Now me and him have an awesome relationship and have become best friends over the time I’ve known him so thats not an issue. BUT HOW FUCKING RUDE! If this person is on the app then they are part of the life style, you know god dam well who we were so why ask the stupid question to my girl friends sisters husband. Isn’t this a huge violation of the swinger policy of minding you fucking business? Sorry just had to get that off my chest. Have a great weekend everyone!