A fwb and I are big in the kink scene and we are looking to expand our horizons. Weāre from a smaller area, so events are harder to come by. However, there are a lot more swingers in the area than active kinksters. Neither of us want to go it alone - harder for single guys, safety for her - but we arenāt sure how it would be received as we are not actually a couple. Pretending to be a couple is obviously out because it would be a pretty big trust violation.
Are non-couples welcome? Would you play with a non-couple if you knew up front?
My husband and I have played with a single female a few times and he has done a solo with her once. We have been to a swingers club where we engaged in a 5-some with a couple and a single. Singles and kinksters are welcome at swinger clubs.
For us, we are picky and a lot of factors come into play before we play.
My wife isnāt interested in participating. I have a partner. We go to events regularly, stay together, and if it comes up, weāre āpartnersā. Agree with the others if you split up but we stay together.
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