Hi hope everyone is doing alright and that all had a great new years.

I have to say me and my GF are pretty new to swinging and, as it is a big new thing for us to bring into our relationship, we have been talking a lot about it and taking our time with this. However, there are times that questions arise and we don’t have a very good ideia on how to answer them so I wanted your help in doing so. Any advices are also deeply appreciated.

What we are really interested to know is how to take the first step into swinging and how was for you?

We have been talking extensively of what we want, our boundaries and what we find hot and how we would like to take small steps into it (maybe not a full swap or only sharing the room and such) but after that we can’t decide how to act upon it.

We have seen swingers clubs but they all seem, at first glance, too sterile. We also would like a couple and not only a third but how in the heavens are we supposed to contact another couple about this, even if we are friends.

Anyway, I hope my post was clear and any misunderstanding I can try to make it clearer on the comments or on the chat if you dont feel comfortable commenting.

Also excuse me in advance if my terminology was wrong. We have just talked between ourselves about this so I might use the wrong terms.

I appreciate the patience!