Over the past few weeks there has been a ton of new swingers (congrats on wanting to explore) that have been BF/GF not married or married a short time. Swinging amplifies issues in relationships particularly in newer relationships or relationships where there is not a lot of stability or security. Not saying people should not explore, but for you young dating couples or freshly married couples I would recommend making sure your foundation is solid before venturing out. I have seen a lot of fallout, drama, and breakups from young (less than 30’s) couples who are not secure in their relationship (or thought they were secure). Have the one and honest talks while stone cold sober from alcohol or sexual energies and talk about pros and cons (STD/Pregnancy). If you have a hard time talking about desires and fears with your other you are not ready at the moment.