So, for context hubby and I are older 53f/62m. We moved to a new state, NC, a year ago. And git back into the LS after a long break. This year has seemed to be alot of water time and energy on things never going anywhere! Endless chatting, schedule issues, ghosting. I'm over it. We took a break in late October until the New Year. Here's my question...how do you start a group, where do you find like minded people? We do not like clubs for the fact that being older and I walk with a cane for stability. No one's gonna be into that lol. Hubby is Bi. I am not. I enjoy a woman during couple play, but not into it one on one. We've had some success on AFF with single bi guys. We've only had 2 couple encounters and they were both awful. I just feel like maybe I'm not into it enough to make the effort? Is it ok to get irritated? I love the sex when it works out, we love the build up etc. But damn it's too much work! Help..