So as my wife and I continue on our journey we realize it’s not as easy at it seems (not that we thought it was ever easy). Been to the clubs, met a couple that is more vanilla for us, then went to a party with them.

We have a few couples we are talking to and have met one we liked and we had our first experience. We had a good time.

But of course in this journey not everything is gonna go smoothly, or perfectly.

Wife and I always keep our spirits up by keeping in mind, people have schedules that don’t align, not every encounter will be “porno perfect”. sex is messy, noisy, funny, sometimes a little awkward especially when dealing with four people who are new to 50% of the group haha, but you try to keep it fun and enjoyable. Even if the first time isn’t perfect and we like the couple, we would be willing to try again. But it the other couple doesn’t, that’s okay too. We dust off our shoulders and continue the journey. It’s her and I together. ❤️

We are happy and proud of us for stepping out of our comfort zone. Mistakes, missteps, jumping too soon on some aspects or too slow, good decisions as well as maybe not so good haha. All of it is a learning experience.

So we ring in the New Year with a clearer picture and head on our shoulders. Excited for what’s to cum in 2024.