It took months until we could finally meet for scheduling reasons and my husband was talking to the wife and they had a nice connection but not crazy sexy or anything and I knew basically nothing about the husband. It wasn’t the date that we usually look forward to and feel comfortable with but we went with it all prepared to say good night after a drink if it wasn’t good. In the end they came to our hotel because we had been upgraded to a suite with space and a balcony and when they walked in I knew immediately I liked him but wasn’t sure how my husband felt about her. She wasn’t exactly like the pictures not nearly as pretty or his type as the last experiences but he was working to let himself be attracted to more than the physical.

Normally we like to be very together, same bed, switching back and forth when we can, connected to each other as much as to the other people, but we also like to spend some time in the talking stage a bit separate so we can each feel a bit freer to talk without too much listening to each other. They sort of initiated the separation and he and I sat on the balcony chatting why they stood a few feet away chatting. I liked how he looked but more than that he looked at me in a nice way and very early on told me he liked me. I could tell it was going well with us but wasn’t still sure what to do unsure about my husband, then they went inside for a bit and when they came back I could tell they had been kissing or something so I was hoping all was well.

I went inside with my husband and he gave the green light so we continued. Somehow when we came inside my husband and the wife went to the bed and we went to the couch. That’s where we started and so I went with it. His kisses were great and he liked mine too. We got naked pretty fast and he touched me for a bit but went for the condom pretty early on, I was like, maybe you want to go down on me? Partially because I like that and it gets me really wet and I wanted to extend the experience not knowing at that point how long it would go if we just had sex. He responded with a huge smile and a hell yes, which was so funny to me because I never would have asked for that in the past but see I have grown and am more assertive and to get that kind of response was amazing, he proceeded to kiss and lick me down there several times through the night.

As we continued he did everything I always think I want someone to do and then some. He lifted me up and moved me from a chair to the couch, later he lifted me up and fingered me while holding me. My husband is strong but has balance issues so can’t do this for me so it’s always part of my fantasy. He fucked me from behind in the bathroom while I was leaning on the counter and we could look at ourselves in the mirror, who knew that would be so hot!? He fingered and fucked me until I couldn’t take anymore and eventually he came in and around my mouth while covering the top of my face to make sure it didn’t get in my eyes. We took a shower and we made out and touched all over, he was till hard. We got under the covers and cuddled and starting fucking again until I was just a bit too sore and our partners were kind of done.

In between it all we talked about different random things and he kept kissing me and he brought me on his lap. It was so oddly intimate for me with someone I just met. I kept asking him how he knew to do everything I would want and he just said that’s chemistry. I’ve had other good sexual experiences since we started this but this was just different.

Not sure if this was a factor, It was completely separate from my husband but I could see the whole time he was also having a good time. When we spoke after he said he could see some and knew I was enjoying myself but he missed really seeing me with the guy and being more part of it since that is part of the turn on for him. He said while the wife wasn’t as much his type she gave him all the other things he looks for. She told him how hot he was and admired his good body. She enjoyed his touches and more and gave back a lot to him too, so it was easy for him to be hard and enjoy himself with her. I knew though that despite it all he wouldn’t want to see them again. For me I feel strange. Part of me felt so connected to this guy how could I not want to do that again, but another part thinks maybe what made it so good was it being the first time with someone new who you really connect with. And also maybe it’s better for my relationship with my husband who I do have incredible sex with and lots of intimacy and love more than anything to not be with someone with such a strong connection more than once.

Either way I am trying to just keep this one in the highlights of my memories and realize it is possible to have nights like this.

Note: we have swapped with other couples but just nothing amazing and it took us a while to even find those and then this happened