A ton of Single Male looking to get in posts. Quite a few were in relationships and never were in the Ls and now want to explore. When I talk with them and as what they wanted to try you get the standard MFMF, FFM, FMF and maybe a MFM if the FFM/FMF came first. Let’s try a numbers game.

Let’s take 100 couples and assume roughly 80% want the same thing as above. That leave 20 couples looking for single males for MFM, MMF, or gangbangs/cuckolding.

Out of 20 couples around 50%ish are looking for MFM and will have high strict standards for the guys they are looking for.

Out of the 10 couples may want a cuckold /dom/ alpha/ bull or are size queens.

So figure if 20 couples advertise for a Single Male there are 100’s per 1 couple.

So think about it when you are asking what do you need to do to enter the LS. You are trying to impress 20%ish of the LS population. What are you doing to stand out. Putting cock pics in profiles, being all about size and dom and alpha will limit your pool of couples further. Every hello is a job interview. Are you reading their profiles. When you were in a relationship how much did you want a single male? Think about these factors when asking what you need to do. Swingers are fun sexual people…not all of us are looking for the easy lay, a few might be, most of us are not!

Estimated numbers from our SLS and Kasidie accounts.

Then as an edit—-you will be also competing with couples who husband has a hall pass as a solo male..he is in the LS, maybe vetted or known in couples groups, or at least knows how to work the LS..so another thing for SM to compete against.