Which is great, they are asking for how to approach this properly and the advice I've seen is awesome.

We are often on the hunt for single males ourselves. This can be like a second job at times with all the BS to filter through, flakes, etc. Reading the feedback and reflecting on our own experiences, it made me curious, what are some of the standout things in a single male profile that have impressed either the hubby or wife when searching and vetting single males and made them stand out?

Assuming no validations - Would you consider it and what would you look for in their profile to reach out?

Assuming plenty of validations - Is there such a thing as too many? What stands out amongst the experience SM's?

Would love to hear thoughts from other couples also on the hunt.