ENM community is judgy. Awesome that you have found ethical enlightenment and permission to bang whomever. My fortune is not such, and I was super honest about my needs and wants it almost ended my situation and I enjoy my family so I’d like to keep what I have. They get to enjoy financial support from me. So I have needs and found out late that gee I guess I’m poly. I support ENM and I agree with your needs. My question is where do ENM ethics draw the line of what they say? Do you tell your in-laws you take an extra dick a few times per month? Do you tell coworkers you had a swinging time last weekend? Or how about wedding vows? Did you vow to be with just one person…[small font] plus a few extra now and again? I support you not admitting these things but does it make you ethical to not let your extended family, or work family or wedding attendees you like to fuck other folks? I’m all for your privacy. Get that dick! I imagine they keep a lot of information to themselves. So why such judgement of the unethical cheaters. ENM is as deviant of ‘normal’ society as cheating so let’s at least agree we are both deviant. Now let’s all go get some strange and be happy we came…with anyone.
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