We've gotten some interest from a couple recently whose profile specifically states they are in an open relationship and play separately. The problem is, we are really only interested in her. My wife is not at all attracted to him.
We are NOT wife poachers. All of our prior FFM experiences have been with single women.
Any suggestions on a tactful and tasteful way to let them know we are interested in her alone? Just trying to soften the rejection message it might send him. Or should we just pass altogether?
And that’s a fine opinion to have. I’m not attacking your opinion here, I’m just saying to allow room for an opinion that sees it another way.
There’s a grey area here that you’re not considering at all… making assumptions without asking questions will only make things more difficult.
OP - in my opinion, tactfully ask the question to both of them. Tell them that y’all prefer FFM but only want to do this if that arrangement is suitable for them, if it isn’t then move on.
No we weren’t actually. You don’t know us at all… and have no idea what we’re like as people.
“Thanks for reaching out but we’re really only looking for ffm currently. We noticed that yall play separately so if that’s something you’re into, maybe we can explore it. If you’re not interested, we totally understand and respect that.”
“Good luck and Merry Christmas”
Being nice isn’t difficult.
Thank you for your opinion. And for stating it so politely 😂
If you tactfully approach the situation, there is definitely a way to ask the question without insulting the other spouse.
I honestly don’t know why i wasted my time replying to your comment… have a good day dude.
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Nevermind. lol
Have a good day