My wife and I went to club M4 recently and really had a great time. We still talk about it and how hot it was. Here is a brief review of our experience. We arrived on a Friday, (when single men are welcome), showed our ID and were allowed in. This was very important as they did not require online registration or copy our ID, they just looked at it. We paid the club registration fee and entrance fee and were given at tour by a member volunteer. She showed us the different areas and told us the rules. I’m sure the rules are not the same every night so check the website for current info. Friday, single men are welcome and as we are total noobs, and not looking for a single dude, our goal was to have a drink, check it out, hit the road and come back Saturday. They have a dress code for entrance so check the website for that but it’s not overly restrictive. The dress code changes (depending on the part of the club that you are in) as the night goes on. There are four main areas. The first is a coed locker room where you can store your belongings (cellphones not allowed), and “dress down” if and when you decide to. My understanding of dressing down is that you take off your clothes, at least down to your undies; you can wrap yourself in a towel, wear your underwear/ lingerie, or be naked. You are not required to dress down at all as long as you stay in the second area of the club. The second area is a bar area and a dance floor and as I said, there are no requirements to dress down in this area, and you could stay in this area and enjoy an R rated evening if you wanted, although I wouldn’t doubt it gets X rated at times. The third area has a bar as well, but also a lounge area with sofas, and also some BDSM gear; a St Andrew’s cross and a spanking bench. This area also has a glory hole room attached but we didn’t get a great look at either side of that situation. In this area you can enjoy a cocktail and socialize, but you may see people having sex, and you can have sex if you want. In this area you are not required to dress down, until a certain time (depending on the night?). As that time approaches, staff will inform you that if you want to stay, you have to dress down. The fourth area is a large play area. As far as I know you are required to dress down in this area, but you will be shown the area on your tour briefly, without the requirement to dress down. In this area, towards the back, there are private rooms where you can have an intimate encounter with your partner and/or whoever else you chose to include. In these rooms, you close the door for privacy, put a rope across the doorway if you want people to watch, or leave the door open and the rope down if you are open to others coming in. More obviously, there are many beds and loungers out in the open with enough space to accommodate as large of a group/orgy as you could probably organize. On Friday we spent most of our limited time in the area with the bar and dance floor. There were single guys and couples, but you could tell the single guys were on a mission. We were approached by a couple of single guys and they were polite and friendly and actually very cool about it when we said we were just checking the place out. We finished our drinks and hit the road. On Saturday we arrived a little later, like 10 ish. Things were heating up quickly; there were attractive young women and couples dancing topless on the dance floor, in the third area, we saw some serious floggings and spankings being administered, both on the cross and spanking bench. A gentleman on a couch and his girl looked at my wife and I, as the girl sucked the gentleman to the edge, before he asked her to stop. Another couple exchanged oral sex before the guy bent the girl over and took her from behind. This couple seemed to be trying a little too hard to put on a show but it was still fucking hot, so if you’re out there, well done! We were approached by an attractive younger couple who quickly told us the girl was bi and they were looking to play, we were flattered but explained we were new and just looking tonight. The guy quickly moved on, looking for another opportunity, but the girl stayed and talked to my wife for a while. She was really cute and young; we leaned they were in a bit of a hurry due to a babysitter situation. It was really hot for me to see a woman hitting on my wife. Another couple approached us, they were closer to our age but still 10 years younger. It was interesting to hear their story as it seemed just like ours, but we were at step one and they were much further along. About this time, the spanking (now paddling) session became intense enough to make my wife wince, and a staff member told us if we wanted to stay we would have to dress down. As we headed to the locker room there was a loud crack and a ball gag muffled cry that had me wincing as well. In the locker room we stripped naked next to 50 total strangers (it was rush hour as now was the required dressing down time) and wrapped ourselves in towels at the waist. We went to the play area and in the play area and this is what we saw. In a corner two men were fucking a woman, we couldn’t see them very well but you could hear them and they were having fun. On a large bed there were two couples; one of the girls was really enjoying watching her man get sucked by the other woman who herself seemed to really enjoy getting fucked while sucking cock. That scenario seemed to be a bit of a theme. Right across from them, another woman was on her back getting pounded by one guy while another guy fed her his cock. On one bed there was a very short and slim dark skinned man with dreadlocks, pounding a very large woman from behind, he was really giving it to her good and she was loving every minute of it. Two of the private rooms had the doors closed. Beyond those rooms was a lounger where a woman was laying on her back with her legs spread wide and the woman eating her out was on her knees on the floor getting fucked from behind. It was incredibly hot seeing the man pushing into the girl on her knees and the way his force was transferred through his girl to the woman she was sucking. She had her hands on the girls thighs and would push her backwards every time the guy pushed into her, causing the girl on the lounger's breasts to heave back and forth on her chest. I know you are probably thinking (hoping) that this is the point where my wife and I start our swinging career in earnest, but that is not what happened. At this point, my wife (who had not been drinking, partially out of safety concerns in this non standard environment, but partially probably because she is extremely arrousable and concerned we might break our agreement to just watch the first time) stated that she was overwhelmed and wanted to leave. So we went to the locker room, got dressed in front of 50 more strangers and hit the road. While we didn’t jump right in to swinging, we both agreed it was the hottest thing we have ever done we both think and talk about it several times a week and we will be taking another step towards the lifestyle very soon. All in all we would recommend Club M4 to anyone with an open mind, a sense of adventure, and a love of eroticism. Tell them Myck sent you.