Alright, we are 25M and 21F and we’re pretty great in bed. She’s as freakish as me, and loves for me to use her, and i always ensure she gets a happy ending either by fucking or tongue, i love to see her moan while climax. Anyway, I introduced her to the idea of Swinging, either Swap or even MFM or FFM, and surprisingly enough she was okay with the idea of it. She had her questions but she was okay.
A little backstory, I am Bi, which shes well aware of, and many a times i have told her that i might go to meet someone for a M2M session and shes pretty chill about it. We werr having a conversation and she thinks that i am just Bicurious, but its fine and shes okay even if I’d want to be involved with men too.
So coming back to the topic, i wanted to do Bi 3some first because i love her so much, i dont want to play alone, i want her to be there, to which shes okay with. So weve been on the lookout but have not yet Met any Bi male under our radar. yesterday she posed me a question, "what if I like him more?" "What if he fucks me better? And I enjoy more?"
I was kinda shut at this question. I have always been able to bifurcate emotional connect and physical pleasure. I told her the same, that yes it is possible for you to like someone elses fuck better, but you need to tell me that!
At this point, i didnt know what to say so i steered the conversation away from this topic.
So for everyone here, when you started out, till now, what do you think should be the case? If you ever csme across a better sexual partner, how do you communicate that, or how do you make yoirself understand?
I am also afraid, if that becomes the case, she might start resenting me, that i am not that good.
Ill appreciate your perspectives. Thanks.
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