I just got back from a trip to Barcelona and Madrid and visited several swinger locations. Information can be hard to find out there, so I thought I would share my experiences.

I'm a 49F from the US, travelling with a 47M boyfriend. We dabble in swinging but are not hard core and are not looking to do full swaps.

• In Barcelona, we went to a club called Training Pedralbes. It had a bar, where people were drinking with their clothes on, and various rooms and a jacuzzi/pool. Many people wore clothes as they moved between locations, and we got dressed/undressed a few times. There a dance-club area in the basement where most of the people were hanging out with their clothes on, and while it seemed like eventually things were going to get sexy, we were tired and left about 2:00 AM after having sex with each other in one of the rooms. Be prepared for a late night if you come here! We had to take a cab back afterwards because the Metro stops running.

• In Madrid, we went to Divernis, a sex spa. They had a downstairs area with a jacuzzi, pool, and sauna where both couples and single men were allowed. In that area, I found the single men to be respectful and wait for an invitation to approach me. Upstairs there were play rooms that in theory were only for couples. That held true for the first part of the evening, but then later in the evening the single guys came upstairs, which I didn't care for as I prefer to have some space with just couples. We went about 6 PM.

• Also in Madrid, twice we went to the Naked Spa, which was our favorite. They have a pool, jacuzzi, a nice eucalyptus steam room, showers, as well as play rooms upstairs with a few BDSM pieces of equipment. We went on swinger night about 5 PM on one night, and 10 PM on another night; single guys were not allowed on those nights. Both nights we found many couples who were interested in playing and/or watching, with the spa being more crowded in the day we went at 5 PM.

• We stopped in at Cap Madrid, but the attendant said few people were there, and he seemed to be discouraging us from entering, so we didn't.

I don't speak Spanish. That was not much of an impediment, as other people spoke some English.

three places had entrance fees of $30 to $50 euros per couple, and some came with drinks included in that price.

I hope that helps!