Hello, single Asian female here, almost 50 years old. I just made a profile, but I kind of have a culture shock, or I am just very naive....anyway: 1. What is it with all the guys at least 20 years younger who want to connect? I find it disturbing.... 2. I am very much for respect, hygiene and discretion/modesty. People get very annoyed that I will not give a face picture immediately. Please, give me some time! 3. Men who will continue to (gently) push, when I said already NO. (I heard swingers are very respectfull with boundaries)
Maybe this life style is not for me....I just do not go as fast as many want.....
Anybody suggestions? I do like the sexy thing a lot....
Thank you!
Anyone that pushes past no digitally or in person a block for me. Donāt worry about hurting feelings.
Younger guys in my experience in the LS as a 45 year old female is they like the low bullshit factor. Plus the older woman thing is a turn on.
We donāt show face until weāre ready to meet a person.
The main thing what are YOU looking for in the Lifestyle? If itās couples put ācouples onlyā. If itās āselect single malesā put that in your profile followed by āmales I will contact you first donāt contact meā. This weeds out the ones pushing boundaries or that canāt read. Lessons I learned the hard way there
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