Wife had requested a mfm for a long time and took me some time to process it all and accept it. We talked a lot and got to a good place of understanding and....we did it. My wife LOVED every second of it and it exceeded her dreams she said. I will admit during it all it was very exciting to be a part of. A rush. A lot of emotions at once.
After we finished and started getting dressed my hormones subsided and ill admit I had this insecure fear wash over me. Basically......what if she just enjoyed sex with him more than me?! She seemed so much louder and enthusiastic than I remember her being with me and she cannot stop smiling about it. "Is it going to be the same with me for her now?" "Was he better?"
I love herand she loves me. I know she isn't leaving me for him but I'm just curious if this is common and how you may deal with it. Thank you so much!!
It wasn't that he was better but that both are you are better than just you.
She had double the attention for all of this.
It makes sense. Don't take it personally.
Wouldn't you get more thrill out of sex with two women? Would that mean anything at all?
Yeah I went through the same feelings mate, totally normal. Did it again straight away to see if I felt the same again and nope all good ! Just first time insecurities.
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