Wife had requested a mfm for a long time and took me some time to process it all and accept it. We talked a lot and got to a good place of understanding and....we did it. My wife LOVED every second of it and it exceeded her dreams she said. I will admit during it all it was very exciting to be a part of. A rush. A lot of emotions at once.
After we finished and started getting dressed my hormones subsided and ill admit I had this insecure fear wash over me. Basically......what if she just enjoyed sex with him more than me?! She seemed so much louder and enthusiastic than I remember her being with me and she cannot stop smiling about it. "Is it going to be the same with me for her now?" "Was he better?"
I love herand she loves me. I know she isn't leaving me for him but I'm just curious if this is common and how you may deal with it. Thank you so much!!
Yeah I went through the same feelings mate, totally normal. Did it again straight away to see if I felt the same again and nope all good ! Just first time insecurities.
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