Long story short. I'm a male in a relationship with a female who is willing to experiment with a lifestyle club but is apprehensive. From my previous relationship, I'm quite experienced with a number of lifestyle clubs such as fata Morgana in Amsterdam, one in Denmark that I can't remember the name offhand. Trapeze in fort Lauderdale, caliente near Tampa, Florida. One awful one in Austin, Texas and secrets hideaway in Orlando.

My partner however has never been to one So I would like her to have a fun, casual, low pressure experience. She's not a prude by any means, but she has self-confidence issues due to her having reconstructive surgery from a double mastectomy and some other issues. I've told her that there are people of all shapes, sizes and colors at these types of clubs and she'll be surprised at how accepting everyone is and how accepted she will feel, but she has to experience it for herself.

I would be fine if we just went somewhere, had drinks and just people watched and experienced the vibe for her first time.

I'm thinking caliente in Florida might be a good first time option, or maybe even hedonism in Jamaica. I think secrets hideaway in Florida, although fun might be a bit much for her. I wouldn't take her to trapeze in fort Lauderdale because frankly the last time I was there I thought it was very cliqish and not very inviting at all.

We have the financial ability and the time to travel so open to any suggestion

Thank you!