Been in the lifestyle for a lil met alot of cool couples.. but the ones we played with have either let's us down or the ones we're going to play with never made it the bedroom. This lifestyle is not for the weak and it draining even couple looks for a unicorn and just settle for a couple cusz unicorns exist in movies.🤣it hard to find a couple that are fun respectful and exclusive why u say because most couples or bouncing from one couple to another and that a turn off for me and my wife. We aren't bad looking and we ain't bad to play with either (both early 30s) I feel like if your wife or husband allows u fuck other people that fine but that doesn't mean fuck the world what happened to standards. There alot bad apples fucking it up for people who actually wanna try and have fun in the lifestyle . Also if u make plans with a couple please try and keep it . Time is the most precious thing and if u gonna waste people time don't even bother a simple no is fine 👌