I've realized there's a huge difference between how we fuck at home versus group play.

She likes it slow and steady at home. 15-30 minutes of slow, focused sex means orgasms for everyone, and it's easy not to blow early.

In a group setting, everyone seems to like it fast and hard. In contrast to the controlled pace in our bedroom, this can lead to orgasming too early for him, but it always seems to suit everyone's taste. Similarly, she generally doesn't enjoy it quite as much, but it's still fun for everyone and it feels less awkward.

Has this been everyone's experience? Do you ever slow things down at parties or in the club? Is anyone else craving different speeds but not wanting to make things complicated with new friends?