Hey there, so this has came up recently. Me and my GF have been going to LS clubs for a few months now. We have talked about it and she wants me to have a threesome with another woman. We already had one with another guy. (Surprisingly before we got into the LS as a couple)
So here's my concern. She gets insecure when i start being social and talking to other women. Yes i do include my GF in the conversations. But the vibe she gives me is that she's not ready yet but she wants to do it for me.
Yes I've told her I'm good as long as she's enjoying herself. But this is a little annoying. And unfair.
I'll give her a mfm as soon as she finds someone to play with. But as soon as i find someone she gets very reserved and it turns the whole mood off.
I'm not sure how to deal with it.
Its always a fine line. When we add women it has to be who i choose, when i choose etc. Im letting him fuck another woman afterall (which i do enjoy) but if he is setting it up amd trying to make it happen it feels completely different to me than me initiating.
Maybe thats just me. My advice is if she seems uncomfy let her be the puppet master. You let her choise and engage only how she asks. Over time you guys will develop the understanding of each others wants and boundaries and sometimes that comes with hiccups.
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Solo males is very rare but anything we've done its kind of more him asking if im into the idea at the time on that side. He would never force me of course and just like with the woman scenario im not going to come onto the man and be like babe i want him.