My husband and I have been in the LS a little less than a year. Initially it was really exciting because there was the unknown aspect of things. Lately I canât help but feel a little burned out on the âhuntâ. Itâs been tough to find couples whom we are compatible ntible with because usually the wife is gorgeous and the guy well⌠just doesnât quite put in as much efforts. Weâve thought about the single male thing, but usually itâs either a guy Iâm not even close to attracted to, or thereâs something odd going on (like them posing as single when theyâre really married). Weâre open to unicorns, but we all know how that is⌠We have an SDC profile, frequent our local club and have been to a few house parties. Not sure if we are alone in this or if the struggle is real out there. Not looking for a poly situation, simple just sexy fun. Weâve had a few good experiences, but theyâre usually the rarity and mainly with people passing through town⌠any ideas? What approach has worked for you?
Been in it for 6 years, our philosophy is to stop looking and being âon the huntâ. If it happens, it happens! If not, enjoy each other and the spice the lifestyle brings. đ
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