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Has anyone else encountered this absolutely bizarre behavior? Men, women and couples have all done this to me. They reach out to respond to a r4r post in whatever city (they almost never look at the date of the post and they write me weeks after we've left town).
This inevitably leads to about the most offensive statement I see regularly, "let me know when you come to xyz".
It's so sexy when they want you badly enough to *let* *you* *come* *to* *them*. None of these clowns ever offer to come to where you are (you are the most gorgeous thing they've ever seen afterall... why should they climb out of their parents basements to fuck you or anything?)
Then the coup de grace. They say, "Keep me in mind". I say, "Of course". Then a few hours later I'll look in my messages and they'll have deleted literally everything they typed so it appears as though I was talking to myself.
What is the point of this behavior? How the hell am I supposed to even remember what city I'm supposed to keep you in mind for much less why you were such a prize that I'd prioritize you when I get there?
Yeah, they're usually replying to a post I made a few weeks ago from where they are. The only pics anyone gets are what's in my profile so there's not much to collect. I'm more annoyed at the waste of time. I don't pursue partners that aren't where I am right now but they sure pursue me for weeks. There was a poster above that suggested I have to take down r4r posts after I'm done looking and I think they're right.
It's not a feeling. It's hard numbers lol. Those apps have their own frustrating audiences and idiosyncrasies to deal with but i'll bitch about them another time. Today I'm annoyed by this specific pattern of behavior.
I have had such good luck with reddit and we've met a lot of great people and play partners but there are also so many time wasters here it really gives the good ones a harder time to match up.
The good outweighs the bad and I'll hopefully keep finding new partners on reddit but this type of behavior really gets me fired up.
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We've slept with about 8x more reddit folks than I have on any swingers app or at a club. YMMV.