Hi everyone! My husband (M35) and I (F27) are just getting started on our journey and we’re having all of the discussions and feelings about the possibilities of swinging! Something that has been coming up for me a lot is nervousness due to my size- I am recovering from a binge eating disorder and I am quite large. Don’t get me wrong! I think I’m cute and I am confident in myself as a person. But I definitely identify as ‘fat.’
Does anyone have any experience with swinging while being quite large? Am I setting myself up for constant rejection? Any experiences, advice, or words of wisdom are welcome!
We go to a club that has a lot of BBW's, and they don't seem to have any trouble getting men.
As for me, personally, being naked in front of other people was a huge motivator for me to lose weight. I'm still working on it, but I'm down over 40 pounds. I have 20 more to lose.
We look at energy over body types. If we vibe then we know we can have an amazing time.
Be your organic self, laugh, have conversations and enjoy. There’s plenty of plus size females in the LS having an amazing time!
Confidence is sexy. You’re a sexual Goddess. Carry that energy with you.
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