Hello! We have been in the Lifestyle for two years now. Minor background for both of us

I worked in Sales and Finance and was forced to develop an ability to converse with others. I’m no wizard but adept and handling meaningful conversation and getting conversation going She has worked as a Teacher and engineering. People naturally gravitate toward her and she has also learned how to initiate and hold conversation. I run the apps for LS and she runs platforms like FB and SLS.

We have both found in the LS that the majority of men and a handful of women struggle at holding conversations. We can make it work and struggle through f2f but online it is horrible! When you ask an open ended question the responses are usually short and not well thought out. We have found that men mostly run the online profiles and suspect that men aren’t good at conversations. While we occasionally are up for one night stands, we usually prefer to find groups that we connect with and develop friendships. We know that we aren’t everyone’s cup of tea but it’s hard to tell sometimes when you send a paragraph with two open questions and the response is a four word incomplete sentence, answering nothing.

Does anyone have advice or insight to this?

Thanks in advance