I (M30) had a conversation with my partner ( F33) recently about kinks and swinging. She asked about my past experiences with group sex. MFM with my GF, I was 19. It helped destroy an already bad relationship, but was fun in the moment.

She was curious and maybe wanted to experience something like that. In fact her new friend (F30) is bi and that a threesome had come up in conversation. She asked if, "I knew that was on the table?"

I was shocked. It never crossed my mind. I was more worried they were gonna run off together.

She seemed disappointed that I didn't pick up on it, and spoke as though that window had past.🤦‍♂️

They are " to good of friends now to risk ruining it." And " I would like to be more secure before we would try something like that."

We have 2 kids together and this relationship has been rocky since the 2nd. We are just now getting back into a good rhythm. I'm working hard on me and our relationship at this time.

This isnt something i would necessarily seek out. The thought of trying to preform for two beautiful women makes me a bit nervous.

However, if an opportunity like that comes up again I would like to recognize it and be ready to go. It would be oh so Hot.

Any advice is appreciated.