34F needing advice. This past weekend my 34M boyfriend and I went to our first swingers party I was shy because I have never considered this lifestyle or even aware this was a life style; I encouraged my boyfriend to play I was trying to be a supportive girlfriend he did not play with other females but we did have sex in front of other couples it was hot. We enjoyed it. My boyfriend has suggested to go back this weekend which at first, I was hesitant but I am opening up to the idea of this lifestyle and having sex with another man I brought this idea up to my boyfriend that I want him to watch me have sex with another man but he now suggesting we don’t go and that we should have never gone the first time. How do I encourage my boyfriend to be as supportive as I am with his sexual desire? Should I let him have sex with another female first so he thinks its fair for me to have sex with another man?
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OP - read her second paragraph until you have it memorized.
Unless you’re willing to risk your relationship for sex with a stranger, then by all means, proceed.