This is the question that I pose for myself and struggle to find the answer. I am in conflict with myself whether I actually enjoy swinging or not. We are both quite sexually liberated so the idea of being nude and swinging was not too shocking. Although I would say that my husband is way more active and seems to enjoy the activities more than I do. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy the attention, the friendship, the meetups and the sex. I have learned a lot in the last 2 years and our sex live has not been better. However When I went back to all the encounters that we had, I probably enjoyed 10% of the time. Other times it just meh.

Up to certain point I am kind of like ok we have tried a lot of things, we know what we like and we know what we don’t like. We should be doing more of what we like and less of what we don’t like. But the things with swinging is you just don’t know until you try. So You just have to kiss a lot of frogs to get the prince.

Do you at some point think that it is just too much hard work to continue? Can’t we just stop swinging and enjoy sex with each other and not worry about meeting new people, the chats, the first time sex…