Me (F32) and my fiance (F31) started to talk about inviting a man to our relationship to spice up things. We are both heterosexual, but he developed a fantasy of me being with another man. At first, when he opened up about it I just laughed it off, but as time passed and he was still into it I started to consider. This fantasy was a real thing for him and it slowly became my fantasy aswell.
I never wanted just a sex buddy, but a friend for the both of us to be more comfortable with all this, but that is possibly a rookie mistake.
We tried to talk to strangers on some chat rooms, social media etc. I even decided to look on tinder, but majority of guys were just interested in only sex and nothing more.
It became frustrating. Then, my fiance came up with an idea of inviting one of his closer friends - I personally knew him for a long time, they had a good relationship because they played football together and talked almost daily.
Not gonna lie, I have always considered him hot, he was single at the time and all the pieces seemed to fit together nicely.
My fiance told him about the idea of having a trip together, as we thought it is going to be a good idea and an oportunity to spend time together.
It all went well. We reached the point when I kissed him and was sitting on his lap a few times - my fiance told him I liked him and he seemed to understand the idea. Another rookie mistake - we never said what we wanted from him.
After a few weeks I talked to him almost daily to the point when I started to send him snaps before bed. When we hanged out I kissed him, he grabbed me, all of this with my fiance present. I really liked him, even to the point I tailored my personality a little bit to suit him better.
Then, after two months of flirt, soft snaps, kisses and touching I gave him head with my fiance present. One of many, because it became a regular thing for us to hangout together or without my fiance. He usually took photos of me while doing it, while I was changing clothes or just hanging out.
He invited me to the wedding as his partner and I decided to go, sensing it could be THAT night to finally go for the sex. It wasnt, because he got drunk.
Then, after a month of this thinga going he started to hit up on me and convincing me to leave my man. It got to the point when he said he would tell everyone about it.
And he did.
Well, not everyone, but he told his friend about it and the rumour spread.
Now we are not seeing each other anymore and the boys are not friends anymore.
So, long story short - be extremely cautious.
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