Hello, I (28M) would like to talk with my gf (26f) about getting into swingers .. community ? She said she has always for an exclusive and monogamous relationship, something that I can understand and respect because I love her but to be honest, sex with her is boring as fuck, how could I tell her about that issue ?
Weâd run from any couple that is trying to use swinging to fix relationship issues. Itâs a huge red flag and generally a drama shitshow.
In that case though youâre trying to show someone a college advanced calculus textbook to teach them how to count.
Swinging/group sex is pretty advanced kinky sex for most people. You may want to start with âhey babe letâs try doggyâ or âletâs use a vibrator during sexâ rather than jumping into fucking other people together.
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But sex is an important part of a relationship and obviously is important to you because youâre looking to fix it.
I see youâre getting pretty upset about some of the snarkier answers below. And maybe people could have been nicer but I think the message Iâd take from it is that youâre looking to patch up a hole in your sexual relationship by using others to fill the gap. What you probably need to think about is the fact that youâre with a sexual dud and sheâs unlikely to change. But based on what you see on this community there are tons of women open to this lifestyle that you could go find and ditch the dud.