Just feeling like I want to share the experience. This weekend we (47m/41f) were in Toronto and decided to go to Oasis on Saturday night. It’s fair to say we were both nervous but it quickly felt so natural to watch other couples and for us to enjoy some awesome sex with each other. I think we got a little taste of every room and the pool. I loved the rush of other people watching us while we were fucking and to watch other couples next to us while I was fucking her. It was excited to watch some people and enjoy the show while we talked about what we liked seeing.

We didn’t talk to a lot of other people and didn’t play with anyone else, but it was still a great experience to get comfortable with things. It seems like most other couples we were around all night had the same mindset of enjoying the environment and focusing on each other.

Our next step is getting over our mutual shyness about talking to people and initiating conversations, but we have that problem even in non-sexual situations. We’re two people who never really learned how to make friends as adults.