How are you meeting fellow swingers ( or hotwives) in your area?

Ever since I moved from NYC to north Carolina, I have found it quite difficult to meet others from here.

A good portion of women from subreddits community I follow are "creators", and I am not sure if their interests align with mine.

I messaged a few people I found interesting and would like to at least meet up with over drinks, but likely my message is buried from all the other typical " hi I wanna fuck you. here's a photo of my dick ~without face~" messages.

What approach do you find good success with?

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here's what I message someone the other day...

I must say, I don't stumble on people from my city that often on here; let alone a freaking goddess! Merlin's beard, you're gorgeous, XXX!

I am Chris, 37(M) in an open relationship, but the only one who is active (we can talk about it more eventually). I see that you mentioned you're no longer part of a couple, and I want you to know that I am okay with that.

I'd love to chat if you are open to that. I am sure you have mommy duties, but we could even meet up for drinks when the time permits!

I have been told I am a patient giver, but lately I find that also enjoy receiving oral. I have no history of STDs...ever and super open to prove it too ;)

my turn off: smoker and drug user (weed not included) Turn on: beautiful mind and smile, lovely breasts and thongs.

Tell me about you, XXX.

P.S. I'd love to attach a photo, can I send it to your KIK?

talk soon!

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