Hey all, just wanted to ask this for the small percentage of single males out there who may be genuinely looking to enter the lifestyle, but may be fighting against all the low bar shenanigans that most single males unfortunately have set as the standard for how single guys are perceived.
So Iād like to know from people who have dealt with the ups and downs of trying to meet a single male, Is there a way for single males to truly enter the lifestyle? And if so what is the proper etiquette?
If youāre trying online
1. Read peopleās profiles
2. Never type ādm meā
3. Send well written massages
4. Have pictures on your profile
5. Never take a dicpic sitting on the toilet.
6. Take care of yourself and dress well
7. Never assume anything about a couple. Know what a stag/vixen verses cuckold is.
8. Donāt try to platform hop, wait on them to feel comfortable enough to.
9. Respect is a bottom line for both.
10. Be ready to group chat.
Clubs
1. Dress well
2. Donāt be creepy and stare either walk up say hello or move on.
3. Dance, us ladies love the dance floor.
4. Talk to both partners not just the female.
5. Understand itās a tough market. Swingers like familiar faces so become a regular, make friends
Or see us again Insta block for us. No one besides the hub tells me what to doš
Will do. Will have to see if thereās anything to even offer, or what a COUPLE would find value in as a single male. For the most part it seems like nothing haha
Got it. Seems like the common theme haha
Your right from that perspective. There really nothing you can offer that any other guy couldnāt also
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Makes sense. Receiving overwhelming incentive to just not be single because thereās no value for the couple