What are you all talking about during an initial meetup with a couple? Maybe I’m overthinking it but I’m starting to think we are boring lol. At least when it comes to the LS. We always seem to have good conversations and laughs but tend to talk about everyday shit and not sexy talk. And sexual innuendo…what is that lol. Feel like we’re friend zoning ourselves.

So aside from the typical how long have you been in it, what is your play style, and what got you started type questions what else are you talking about? How sexually aggressive are you getting? Once you realize you have the same play styles and similar boundaries are you jumping right in and inviting them to play?

We don’t have time to keep going on dates with no play. We aren’t unattractive, have good hygiene, and make an effort to look our best on dates. That leaves personality/conversation. Or are most looking for the deeper connection and we just have to keep playing the numbers game?