Need advice. My wife for 20 years and I just had our first MFM encounter several months ago. We are both 45, he was 26.It was a great first experience. I definitely see her as a hotwife 5'3, 110 lbs, half asian half white. We wanted to do it again but the dude pretty much ghosted me. That night he came very ealry on and might have been ashamed with that, but I don't really know. It seemed like everything went well. I've been trying to find another guy, but no momentum thus far.

In the past few months my wife has also reconnected with a fuck buddy from over 20 years ago. He's now single and late 40s. She's already gone to lunch with him because they work in similar fields. At lunch they started talking about my hotwife fetish and our MFM experience. He got really interested and wanted in. Later my wife said it's up to me if we want to bring him in for another 3sum. She would be in if im in. I'm into the hotpast as well so this excites me. A concern is since they share work on similar things he's been texting her and she the same. I'm feeling a stranger in our first experience was less emotional for both of us and there's no additional communication unless we want that communication.

Just seeing if anyone can share thoughts on this. Maybe has go e through something similar.