If you are not God fearing, agnostic or atheist we welcome your perspective but please understand many in the LS are religious and came from strong God centered up bringing so please be respectful.
That Said!!!
Letās talk about how you resolve your religious beliefs with your actions as an ENM participant.
We are would call ourselves Christians. Though we donāt attend church regularly and we arenāt necessarily people of prayer we are God fearing. Mr is an ordained minister; yes he can marry and bury you. He is well versed biblically, has studied the Holy Quran, the Talmud and Tora including hand writing his own copy you the Bible, Holy Quran and Tora (in English).
When we got married Mrs gave her life to Christ and we because very active in the churches in the communities we lived in. We lived very public lives and put up a very clean cut vanilla front. Not just for everyone else but also for each other. At some point we both got tired of pretended bland realized we both wanted the same thing in our sex life (before including others) and were too afraid to be honest because we thought the other would see it in violation of our āreligion.ā We were also frustrated with the act we felt we needed to put on for acceptance in a community, we found out recently is filled with swingers at the highest levels of churches. But we digress.
We spent a lot of time resolving our kinks and fetishes against our faith and continued to work though it as we entertained and eventually canon balled into the LS pool. We have met countless people who have taken the same journey and ended up in the same place.
We figured we would open it up for discussion.
How did you deal with this in your life?
Letās discuss.
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I mean its not just a few experiences that encompass our passion. Im not sure but then again im not sure if this is our forever state either. When it started it was frequent. Then we went 2 years of nothing. Just passed up bc it wasnt everything we were looking for and we had already scratched the itch to scratch it type thing. I hope our kids are open with us as adults and are comfy talking to us. We might share parts if the circumstances are right but it def wont be anytime soon