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My wife and I have been together for 15 years. She is 33 and I am 35. We have always been extremely vanilla! EXTREMELY! I couldnât even imagine her being touched by another person let alone another man. Last summer we visited Temptations in Cancun. How we ended up there is beyond me but we saw some things that apparently had some kind of impact in our marriage. Mind I say, she is a VERY SEXY woman, but lately when we are tipsy, I feel her more free, sexier, she carries herself differently. One night while tipsy we had âThe talkâ she was extremely interested in the lifestyle. She even asked, who would be do this with!? BUUUT once sober she wasnât remotely interested. She said it was sex talk and nothing else. She came like no other time that night, 3 or 4 times! What am I missing? Am I reading her wrong or do I need to go about it in a different way? I donât want her to do anything she doesnât want to do but she gets tipsy again and we are right back at it.
Now I canât get her riding another cock while I watch out of my head!
Itâs always uncertain how our partners may feel but at least to some degree she is open. It is VITAL to create a safe space, free of judgement and copious with support to move forward. She may get liquid courage to discuss and when sober she may have a hinderance to discuss. Create an environment that is safe, not pushy and full of support. It may take some time. It is important that she feel support and not judged. Wishing you all the best!
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