So a few weeks ago was my wife and i’s wedding anniversary. I had make a few posts and found a single male that was interested in joining us for a mfm threesome. We chatted for a while before hand and then later that night met up for drinks and to chat with all three of us together. At first my wife was a little standoffish bc I had made it look like it was a random encounter but she caught on fairly quickly 😂 but she opened up and all three of us had a good time chatting and flirting so we decided to go back to our hotel room. After getting back we played multiple times and then after the last time we all agreed it was getting late and he got dressed said goodnight and left. The next morning I went to message him letting him know we had a great time and come to find out he ghosted us and blocked us!! I wasn’t too upset about it bc it is what it is but my wife took it kinda personal thinking it was something she did or something about her that made him ghost us. Has anybody else ever had this happen to them before after having what seemed to us a great night of play?
P.s. things were a little awkward in the beginning but after my wife opened up they seemed to get along great and he even told me he was glad he stayed instead of bouncing
I’m not going to lie in my younger years I wasn’t the most faithful I fucked up but ever since me and my wife introduced swinging into our lives our relationship I feel has actually grown and gotten stronger and can say we are in a happy marriage and communication is open and it’s a plus that my wife bangs other women with me lol
Exactly and you start to wonder what it was that made him ghost us but life goes on and so does the lifestyle
Yes he knew and wife wasn’t pressured at all once he showed up she was cold shouldered but opened up and agreed to play it was her decision
He was early 30’s he did also let us know that he was here for work training and would be leaving next month to go back home so that could also be a reason as to why he ghosted us he probably figured once he went back then we would never see him again maybe
Not really fascinated on the reasons just curiosity on others experiences I’m a go with the flow it is what it is type lol just sucks bc he seemed like a cool dude that we would have liked to have played with more often 🤷🏻♂️
She knew she just didn’t know when or where hence the caught on part
Reeks of married cheater…
SMH, I’d never ghost you two. You are supper local and I want something regular
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That’s understandable and we are ok with a ONS but at least say that and I get it we’ve been in this lifestyle a while now shit happens