Well, the wife and I went to a LS club for the first time this past weekend. She isn’t totally into the full swing thing, but she agreed to try it out since she knows I’ve been interested in the LS for a while and we’ve been doing the “pretend to watch for be watch” fantasy thing for a while. We talked about it a lot beforehand and agreed we’d go just to dance hand out, see what it’s like with absolutely no pressure to go any further than either one of us was comfortable with. We even kinda practiced how to check in with each other throughout the night if anything were to escalate.

It was a pretty good time. The staff was very welcoming. It was a newbie night so they had another “host couple” meet us and give us a tough and run through of the rules an etiquette. They were very nice and to my wife’s surprise quite a normal couple. It was really cool because they were the first non monogamous people we’d met (that we know of) and they helped make us feel at ease.

Then we had a couple of drinks and started listening to the music. It was a little strange because it felt like we could check out the other people there and talk to each other about if we found anyone attractive even if we weren’t going to approach anyone. Also it was really nice just hanging out and dancing with each other since with work and kids, we don’t get a chance to do that very often.

After a few hours we decided to brave the play room area to see what it was like. There were a few people in the waiting area hanging out and chilling until their their rooms were ready. The wife and I saw a couple through a window. The woman was going down on her man and they were really getting into it. We walked past and open door where a threesome was going on and a nice looking curvy woman was getting fisted. There was another woman tied up on a X apparatus in the BDSM room getting fingers by a VERY well built dude. In another room there was a guy going down on a woman with very nice breasts. The wife and I would watch and kind of hold each other as this was the first time either of us had really seen anything like this in person.

I thought we were just going to keep watching or go back to dancing (the wife was starting to get into it before we went downstairs) and I would have been perfectly happy with that, but to my surprise she wanted to get a room for us.

So we got our names on the board and watched the couples with the doors open some more until our names were called. When we got inside my wife was more turned on than I have felt in years. She was talking dirty encouraging me to go harder than she usually likes. She was commenting on the sounds coming from the next room (a couple was really going at it) and she wanted me to make her scream louder than them, which again kinda out of character for her but really damn hot! We went at it for our entire time limit and then she said she wanted to go home and keep going.

Normally if she says something like that she’s too tired by the time we get home, which is usually understandable, with the kids and work we don’t usually stay up late, and while we were going home it was already 2 am. Again to my surprise she was still really into it when we got home and had some more awesome sex. She even mentioned (unprompted) perhaps leaving the door open in the club next time. SHE SAID NEXT TIME!!!!!!

I’m so happy and so excited to see what happens next.

If anyone has any advice or experience on what to do after their first steps into the LS I’d love to hear them.