So, this other couple, we have messed around with before but never full swap. Usually tits come out, oral, and fucking next to eachother in bed.
My wife and the other guy play great and are okay with full swap. However me and the other girl don't play with eachother that much. I think we just aren't that interested in eachother, however she has asked me to fuck her and I kinda freeze at that point.
I try not to kill the vibe but it usually ends awkwardly with only my wife getting off and the other couple leaving to finish alone, while I finish with my wife.
I'm not against it, I encourage it actually. We even foreplay with the other couple. They wanted to try my wife's milk, so it started off with them both sucking on her tits, everyone got naked and we went in the pool, after I took my wife to the room for sex and they walked in to join us. Referencing this last time.
How can I be less reserved and have this other girl enjoy herself? She makes an effort. Do I just go for it? Do I foreplay with her more before to be more interested? Also, condoms or no condoms? Just want to hear how others go about it.
Condoms or no condoms? Wow the world has changed . If you don’t know them except that they like to swing, the default should always be condoms Have a physician prescribe you Trimix (and phenylephrine). You’ll be rock hard regardless of how you feel about her
If you're not into her, then you're not into her. Don't forget yourself to do something you're not comfortable with. You'll just end up regretting it and it may end up causing problems in your personal life
He’s been “not” doing it and he knows he’s fucking up the vibe. That’s why he came to the Internet to ask strangers for advice on the first place. His wife likes the couple, the couple seem to enjoy them, everybody’s cool with the situation he’s just not attracted to her. So he’s asking how to overcome that. Life’s not always about what “you” want; especially in marriage. Men sometimes have to go above and beyond the call of duty. It’s called sacrifice.
Your analogy makes zero sense. He needs to play with a woman that he’s not inherently into. Trimix will 100% solve his problem. You don’t use Trimix everyday, only when you need it.
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I’ve had to take one for the team plenty of times and I’m still breathing… it’s not that deep & I’m happy to make other people happy. He’s making his wife and the other couple they’ve known 20 years happy. He’s been doing it your way and its lead him here! What’s the definition of insanity?