Alright, so hoping I can get some advice. I was married over 20 years to a very conservative and, generally speaking, mean person. I’ll leave that for another story. Now that I am single, I want to explore this lifestyle. Always was curious and want to start, but where? I’m cute, pretty descent shape, a gentleman and very charming.

I bought a membership to Club Labyrinth LA, as they seem fine with single men. Was that a mistake? Just reading some posts about that club and it seems a bit sketchy. Am I overthinking it?

Any other advice in how to begin my swinger journey? Safely?

Thanks for any advice. This platform seems very informative.