Hi all, please tell me if this is a bad idea. I am single 31F and live in Portland. Here we have swingers clubs and they are having a newbies and speed dating night tonight. I have never been involved in this lifestyle and never had a threesome or anything like that. I am bored, lonely do not want to online date and just want to try something different and have fun. I might get nervous and decide it's too overwhelming and leave but I guess that's the worst case scenario. What is the most important thing I should know before I go? Or will I just probably be awkward AF with no experience and no buddy coming with me so I probably shouldn't? Thanks in advance
Probably the 3 safest places on the planet for a single female, a swingers club, a nudist resort, a swingers resort. You will receive a lot of attention if you are approachable. Everyone who notices you, including all of the staff will have their eye on you the whole time you are in any of these places to make sure you are not harassed by anyone in anyway. Anyone who does harass or bother you will be bounced so quick it'll make your head spin, and if they get real bad a large group will kick the living shit out of them. Go, relax, have drinks, be flirty and know you are not required to do anything or anyone you dont want to. if you find people you like and click with, great do what you want. Most people will just be happy having you share a drink and a few laughs with them. We've been going to all 3 for years, the girls are ALWAYS looked out for and especially the single girls. Go a few times and make friends and you wont be bored any longer and your friends list will sky rocket "provided you can be approachable, friendly and fun" even if you never have sex with anyone there.
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