So my wife (41f) and I (47m) have been exploring with a lot of mutual interest, but it seems like women playing with women is a standard requirement in the lifestyle. She’s very much not into playing with other women and I’m not particularly turned on by it myself (classify me as a “oh, that’s cool” kind of interest). How common is this and what kind of experiences do other couples have with purely straight play? Neither of us are worried about the incidental contact that might happen, but she has no interest in making out with other women just like I have no interest in sucking another guy. I’m inclined to think we’re not alone but the discussions seemed to be flooded with “I wasn’t bi until she made me eat her” kind of penthouse forum stories. Give us some reassurance from real experience please.
I’m not bi. We say on our profiles that I’m willing to do stuff with women but I make the distinction that it’s not necessary and list myself as heteroflexible. It would make things easier for sure if I was truly bi but alas.
I love women, I am one. You all are gorgeous but like, let’s share a dick together and leave it at that you know? We don’t have to make out while we do lol.
HA! Exactly what I said, before I got down to your post.
I am bi and my husband loves watching… when scanning profiles if the female is straight we move on. We are more into 4some versus separate swap so we look for couples that everyone can enjoy. My husband is not bi but is comfortable in his skin and next to another man in very close encounters.. so all the hands, all the mouths, all the positions, all the swapping is our kind of fun.
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In our experience half the women (well, roughly) who say they're bi on SLS are not really actively bi. Yeah, they'll let another woman go down on them but don't expect them to make much effort in the other direction. Or maybe they like to kiss and make out on the dance floor with other girls but that's pretty much it.